Slick

Gotta Be You

steady watchin, steady workin,
put my head in the air and i see somebody waitin,
i knew that i'd find you in the end,
just a game,
i kept rollin my dice, to get in(chorus)

gotta be you (x2)
gotta be gotta be gotta be gotta be gotta be gotta be gotta be you (x2)
every nite I’m workin out late skippin meals
I cant stop saying ya name thinking all day just wanna see ya face
girl I need you even I’m in pain
can’t imagine I got to fly far away girl
I miss you even its just one day
the reason why I’m sayin this to you,
cant live without a girl its gotta be you its you girl,
I can’t walk with this narrow path world
I’m holding thru
I need you girl every time I pull this rope the girl
I’m searching thru Its gotta be you

Chorus (x2)

Gotta be you Gotta be you Gotta be you Gotta be you girl (x2)
Girl, girl, girl, gotta be you hey hey..

Chorus

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saw this vid by one of our local talent here by the name of Young Boi.
it's incredible..
smooth..

A somehow busy and hectic day.
Met up with her at expo for the IT fair there. around 6+ evening.
org tu marah.
i arrive later. hahaha..
nvrmind. there's another story behind it.

More like Courts Roadshow. I thought its only happening at Lot 1 till Sunday before they shift to another location.
Expo pun ado rupenye.
ape lagi.
serang.
She wanna get herself a notebook for a suitable price.
aww..
had dinner first, coz i'm bloody hungry.
force her to eat together. heh.

We start looking for the one suitable laptop, including bringing her to take a look around for digital cameras I'm looking for.

cut story short...
not intending to make a movie here.. =D

We did found one suitable for her.
The look on her face. heheh..
Happy!

Send her back home afterwards at 10+pm.
It looks awkward for her, walking back home alone with that bulky plastic bag in one hand.
Oh well. antar le balik..
dah mlm pun..

it has been a looong time since i went for an IT fair.
Cool.
So many stuff to look for..
gosh.
tsk tsk..
mcm nak pi lagi on Sunday..
brr..
must go. last day there.


ok..
End.

To continue reading the next part, we need to open-up our mind to reality/actuality.
Not fantasy.
Open our minds and eyes. And think.

Lets look into these topic that I've been very curious about.

Player.
Who is a Player? or what is a Player?

A player is the one who play sports such as Soccer, Football, Ice Hockey and the norms.

HA!

k.
Serious.

How do u dubbed a person a player?
Who plays around with the feelings of someone's.

What do i meant?
how?
They get to know someone. Attraction happens. Exchange contact information for further communication.
Get closer.
Get comfortable.
Become an item.
Get another one to be with while he has already that someone.
Then leave that someone for another one without any reasons whatsoever.
AFter all that happen, came back to the one and say his reasons this and that such as I still Love you but.. bla bla bla...
Then left her like that making her questioning herself what the hell is going on.
He disappear with the another one.
She is left like that.
Then maybe from there, the cycle continues...
It goes on, hurting one feelings one after another.
That, is a Player.

Correct me if I am wrong.
How do I know this?
It came from someone's(I used to be close with) experience and some get in the know somewhere.

I don't know what is in the mind of that person's intention.
Not my problem.

I've been dubbed as a player by some of my friends, either as a joke or bloody hell who knows what.
It's funny. They are guys! Not girls.(a female friend call me a Casanova, as a freak joke though)
Either they don't get it or they are unsure of the true definition of a player.
i'm not trying to say anything specific or pinpoint fingers but
From what I learnt, either from experience and or some knowledge,
those who said that either they have problems within them themselves or they have not yet been with women.

Women are different from what men experience.
Women are constantly being hit on by men, the gorgeous ones, the pretty ones, even the normal-looking ones are hit on by men.
Am I Right to say this?
Either most of the time or nearly every day.
Men don't experience this.
(Although there are certain issues I don't want to say much here, but some men do get hit on. By men! Either the men hitting on you are gays or are bisexual. How do I know? Experience.. gaha..
brr. .)
Men are uncommonly being hit on by women. To a certain perspective,I rarely see this.
But it happens though. =)

So you see, if a woman, a lady have many numbers of guys in her handphone she is contacting with, do we call her a player too?
cannot be.
(unless she have different things in mind, i don't wanna elaborate on that)

Woman have this , something like, a certain rules subconsciously in them to filter out the men that she get to know or in contact with, whether he is suitable for her, to be with her, to be her friend, to be her player, or a loser.. or whatever other things she had in mind but the main concept is, woman subconsciously do this.

Women are different from men.
Men are like, switches.
They can get instantly, get attracted to a particular someone, just like that. Like an on-off switches.
On-Off.
Women, are more like.. Volume knobs.
When they get attracted to a particular someone, it is more out of curiosity.
They don't get instantly attracted like men.
It takes time, gradually increasing the 'attraction' and 'comfortability' with that particular person.
That is why to women, men can easily forgotten about a certain incident or a past with someone, without showing any remorse whatsoever.
Just simply switch off. (Although what is inside us, we don't usually show it outside)

Women on the other hand takes a slowly longer time for that feeling to dissipate completely..
Just like you are lowering a volume knob.
(but, in case of a breakup, men do take longer time to forget what has happen, to a certain extent. Reason being, men are not constantly being hit by the other gender. Unless gays. And unless they have other women to be in contact with. Women do. Even they have broken up, women can have new guys getting to know her etc. Men, on the other hand, have to start things going)
That is why sometimes you heard men chasing his ex just because he still love her bla bla bla.
But women of course will not take this bait and usually push him away, that create even more tension between two parties.
Of course by showing this action, the man is showing his value that goes lower than the woman.
The way he approach his ex is basically wrong and make it even more worse.

It took me nearly more than 6 months since my break-up before I realise something.

The guy that I have been talking about long time ago that wanted to bash me up or something because i talk with my ex? let's keep low-profile.
In the end, he look for me to talk to her when things not going well.
Well.
I told him something.
The good thing is, he heed that.
And not bothering her like what wussies do.
Seems he doing well.
Great.

My nieces ask me this common questions recently:
-Do you have a girlfriend?
-Huh? Don't lie. I don't believe you.

heh.
I may be still looking,
but i'm enjoying life.
=D

Women known a lot of men in their life.
They know how one are like and they know how to differentiate a person with another person and of course they are good in reading body language etc.
They have experience this for lifetime.
Of course, it's not surprising beautiful women have their handphones beeping like crazy, even during meetups with someone.
(kinda irritating though. heheh. That is why i kept mine in silent during meetups. Vibrate, take out phone, message. Or call. Vibration is more soothing then constant beeping. hahaha =D )
Women don't really like a man constantly sticking to them like a puss/wuss.
Especially the hot ones. They experience it a lot.
They get, how do i say this, lemas.. They feel trap. No air.

That is why men, can be in contact with a few, even though you are attracted to one of them.
It's not wrong. (But when you are with someone, whatever you do,think of her)
These is to prevent the attitude of sticking to one like what and then constantly calling her, messaging her. Like budak takda akal. Mcm mane si dier tak lemas dok.
And also, keep yourself busy with what you do.
It makes the mind busy.

Keeping a low profile to those I've spent time with.
It is great making new friends.
Of course, meeting someone new is something interesting but you may not know that person much. It may create an awkward situation.
There's a way to break the ice barrier faster than you can ever imagine of.
Both parties will feel like they known each other long time.
From there, along the way, while having fun, both parties will on hand get to know each other subconsciously.
There will not be any awkward situation where, there's silent. mcm shit.
( I remember when I was younger. A meetup with her. We very shy shy. haha.. that's funny. sit in train, far far. Cute pe. talk a bit, smile, laugh2. then silent. Tapi dlm hp, punye la rancak. Kisah silam. hoho)

Of course, along the way, there are mistakes made to getting to know someone.
From there, Learn, gain experience.

My adik angkat sister.
She used to be a barmaid. Now? Not sure. (Most of them numbers in my old phone. Lost contact, still figuring how to get them back)
A year older than me.
It happen when i was contacting my adik, and heard her voice in the background asking who was it.
Known them long time but it's like many years before getting to know her sister that close.
Make the story short, I decided to have game of pool with her one day.
But instead she was with her friends for a movie and ask me to join in.
I agreed. But of course it is A Mistake.
Why?
You get to know someone new.
You wanna spend time with her and at the same time wanting to know her how she is like.
Beauty is a bonus. Personality, u must find out and get to know.
(Why i say this? She is a good-looking lady, but I wanna know how she is like. Beauty is no excuse for bad attitude)
Although the first day I met her, which is after her working hours and only time we spend together was through supper,
(This may not really the best thing for first few meet-ups but, at past midnite, what u can do right?)
we only had a conversation,there's still more to know in a way.

Of course, it was uncomfortable watching a movie while her friends beside her are like hugging teasing bla bla bla. We are still not comfortable with each other yet.
If The moment i do that, her survival instinct kicks in and whacked me with her high heels shoes.
(she told me she learn karate and a black belt holder. hmm. ok. I know where you going there girl.. hoho).
heh. Just exaggerating.

Of course, in a movie theatre, u can't talk much.
Except watch that damn show and u can't really interact with her.
It's true.
Meeting someone new for the first few meetups for a movie is such a disastrous amateur way to get to know someone new.
You can't talk with each other but just stare at the screen.When guys start touching or, get into physical contact with a lady in the theatre before both parties are really comfortable, it shows that he is desperate and the woman may not get comfortable with you the next time.

Watching a movie to get someone new for the first time is a BAD MOVE.
Just think about it. How to talk? How to get to know a person?
Go figure.

The best?
Spend time together doing things together.
Allow for more conversation or interactions.
'Comfortability' will set in naturally.
Movie dates?
After you already get to know that person well, like after few more meet-ups.
That one can le.
Just getting to know someone new, suicide beb!

We lose contact after I had problems with my number.
That december.
Haiyo..
I try contacting her one day and it was succesful, but let it be.

Women like I said, are like volume knobs.
The less interaction with her, the volume knobs go lower and lower, slowly.
You start interacting with her, the volume knobs go higher and higher(results varies by the way you interact with her) **[on the other hand, if things go well, the less interaction, she will miss you. you will miss her. absent makes the heart grew fonder.. cheh]**

Interesting Allah's creation.
That is why without them, live will be a bore in these world.
Don't remind me of Gays. and bisexual.
Had enough. but it is interesting though.
I still wanna find out what is in their mindset of us real man.

Some of these are experiences and getting in the know.

Comments? Your views?

Keeping those i've spend time with low-profile,
it is great spending time with them and getting to know them better.
vice-versa.
No awkwardness, just feel like we known each other long time.
Seeing them happy and smile and having a great time, feels great inside.
oOoo.
We are still friends now.

Someone, have been showing something that I wanna know.
But I wanna find out more of her.
No rushing.

Happy Surfing
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