Reasons for own good
Hola!
To those who been reading my blog,
I wish you a very good day!
(although i nvr really publicise or advertise my blog to many friends...only a certain number =p )
I've been into a personal project as you may not know.
I've been doing this for the past few months, until recently, I finally got the key, or rather, the key idea that catapult me into another stage.
It has already been more than a year being in the single scene.
I have my fair share of fun, interesting happenings, actions, getting to know new girlfriends, spent time together, laugh, poke, push, roll etc etc.
But what is important is, getting to know what you really want in your life.
What do I meant by it?
You see, I've been emailing back an forth with a certain partner for being an affiliate partner with him.
I get into contact with another partner which specialise in another traits of a person in the dating/ relationship scene.
It's all dealing in a business partner deal. (ok. this is beside the point)
Let me asked u this.
Are you a relationship gypsy?
What does it means?
You do know what a gypsy is right?
Gypsy - going from one place to another, traveller..
Relationship gypsy - means one who break up with someone on 7th November @ 3pm and get into another relationship on 7th Novemeber @ 301pm.
You see the example?
Get it?
One who move to another relationship after break-up on off on off and the cycle continues..
I've known a few girlfriends who are involve in this situation and do you think it's for her own good?
What do you think?
Simply, they didn't have a Break for themselves and they kept having this feelings of broken-heart, happy, sad, broken-heart on and off.
( i do know women love this cycle of emotion storm within themselves and they feel good without them knowing.. some)
Have they ever thought of taking a break?
=)
It has been more than a year and what do I learnt?
Dating with a few number of girl-friends, make me realise, what I really want in my life.
What kind of girl I do want, what kind of girl I may expect to know, What kind of attitude a girl may give towards you when you do certain kind of action (they are various. Not one are the same).
You see, how do you cope with multiple dating and why?
Being single, you have no restrictions on what you want to do for yourselves.
It's your life.
Also, these experiences make you learnt more about yourselves. And people all around you. (Dating scene)
You do have time to embrace yourselves so that you will know what kind of girl you really want in life. ;)
Ever came across the term multiplicity?
Now you heard it.
It's call, dating multiple person when you are single.
SINGLE. NOT WHEN YOU HAVE SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW. =)
*crack your skull if you do this*
Not many will agree or this is really controversial to most people.
Especially towards guys.
They get labelled 'a player', or 'Casanova' and what else?
The reason dating multiple partners at the same time is simple.
You will know what you want in your life, and you get to understand yourself what kind of girl you really want to share your life with.
You see.
Instead of yourself, be emotionally hurt or hurting your girlfriend's feelings,
you do need to know yourself first what you really want.
You don't have to be a 'Relationship Gypsy' and at the same time hurting Women.
That is really, a Player.
We are still having fun with each other's presence and our constant communication.
And oh, don't tell me you haven't found a girl that do this things too.
I do.
I've dated a few, who have so many guys wooing for her.
It seems to be frustrating to oneself but, after I learnt more and more each day and each month, I do finally see the full picture why, certain desirable men and women do this. =D
Check out my weblog on a personal project I've been working on.
Based on experiences, friend's experiences, the 'naturals' and other sources.
Signing off,
Burn
